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Is it OK to take relationships for granted?

Hey beautiful Souls,

“When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain.” i follow this in my life and you all should do the same.

Today , i am going tell a story , Please read it, understand it and discuss about it.

Last Sunday, I got really disturbed by a news and that was about an uncle next door ,he went to kitchen to make tea for himself but got died due to heart attack while pouring water in glass from the water filter.Irony is the man has two sons, two daughter, two daughter -in-laws, 5 grand children and most importantly a wife but no one was staying with him at his age of 67.

But now the question is that Why despite having so many relations in his life he was living alone???

Because his wife left him few years back, reason was that he stopped her from meeting one of her male friend, on whom she was crushing over .They got separated after 25 years of marriage and were living in separate cities,away from children and grand children.

 Currently, she is living alone , bought a house from her husband’s money and joined some religious group, she use to go orphanage and old age home to distribute food packets, what if they both had been sorted out their issues and lived together, shared their sorrows together, cherish their imperfections or tried to sort out the issues between them.

He lived his whole life for his kids n family, worked hard for them, earned money by giving 12 hours to work so that his family can live happily.

May be he too made some mistakes and too misunderstood his wife, but couldn’t they were able to forgive him or look after him in his last days. Why we take relationships for granted ?

Why we cant love people with their imperfection while they are alive???

My perception is that what is the use of getting married, having kids, if you have to die regretting about all your decisions in life and no one is there to share your sorrows, happiness, loneliness and even your last wishes.

love has vanished from this planet slowly, no one is aware about the true meaning of love and relationships. love means freedom , but we try to hold on each other too tight that after some time suffocation starts and relationship gets stagnant…

Give each other space, Expect less, Express more, Share and celebrate imperfections…

Its not only about loving , its about living with humanity and kindness for others.

we got one life and we all have rights to live this life happily.

Keep Loving.

Respect every Relation… Kyunki har rishta kuch kehta hai

Categories: human emotions

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myunsaidthoughts

An ambitious woman with vision. i wanna see this earth full of happiness and love all around which is about to vanished from this world. trying to restore happiness by spreading my thoughts and views with people and by talking to more and more people about this.

2 replies

  1. atulaniy .. sabdo ka abhabb agaya h .. in other words (no words) keep going .. keep pusing..
    –The first draft is just you telling yourself the story.
    โ€œThe road to hell is paved with adverbs ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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